The best sex therapy money can buy
June 25th 2008 06:18
My advice guys, send your women out to see ‘Sex in the City’ not once, not twice but at least three times !
At last a film that tells women it is okay to be sexy over the age of 50, its good to actually want to have sex more than once a year and yes it is damn good fun to be confident in your own skin.
Don’t get me wrong guys you don’t need to go with them, in fact it is best if you send them with their friends to cement to the idea … no concrete it LOL
The thing is as women approach 40 especially married women, the ones that have put up with a guy for too long, allowed us get comfortable with not trying too hard. They tend to lose the enthusiasm for the one thing that will get us doing anything they ask… SEX.
Now before the female readers start throwing saucepans at me …. > ducks.. I said BEFORE…. There are many varied and complex reasons for this apparent lack of interest other than a simple tempering of wicked desire. When these things crop up, us men tend to take refuge down in the shed until the storm passes and that’s fair enough cos there no way we can fix any of that.
But there is one thing that women do control and that is their natural interest in them selves. Unless they feel sexy, look sexy, think sexy, then the urge to be sexy and therefore ignite that fuse that can’t be dampened, will lope off to the shed on its own.
Guys we can help to a degree, if we constructively encourage the apple of our eyes they may well start to remember what its like to be the cherry everyone wants. But by far the biggest thing that will change our women’s sexual inspiration is their exposure to what is acceptable by others especially their friends.
A film with a threesome, regular outbursts of random sexual activity and even the hint that oral sex is enjoyable not crass or dirty, that can surely only help stimulate more than a few giggles in the bedroom of those that had thought that door had been closed a long time ago.
At last a film that tells women it is okay to be sexy over the age of 50, its good to actually want to have sex more than once a year and yes it is damn good fun to be confident in your own skin.
Don’t get me wrong guys you don’t need to go with them, in fact it is best if you send them with their friends to cement to the idea … no concrete it LOL
The thing is as women approach 40 especially married women, the ones that have put up with a guy for too long, allowed us get comfortable with not trying too hard. They tend to lose the enthusiasm for the one thing that will get us doing anything they ask… SEX.
Now before the female readers start throwing saucepans at me …. > ducks.. I said BEFORE…. There are many varied and complex reasons for this apparent lack of interest other than a simple tempering of wicked desire. When these things crop up, us men tend to take refuge down in the shed until the storm passes and that’s fair enough cos there no way we can fix any of that.
But there is one thing that women do control and that is their natural interest in them selves. Unless they feel sexy, look sexy, think sexy, then the urge to be sexy and therefore ignite that fuse that can’t be dampened, will lope off to the shed on its own.
Guys we can help to a degree, if we constructively encourage the apple of our eyes they may well start to remember what its like to be the cherry everyone wants. But by far the biggest thing that will change our women’s sexual inspiration is their exposure to what is acceptable by others especially their friends.
A film with a threesome, regular outbursts of random sexual activity and even the hint that oral sex is enjoyable not crass or dirty, that can surely only help stimulate more than a few giggles in the bedroom of those that had thought that door had been closed a long time ago.
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Al Brunswick
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Comment by Sven Topp
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Deafblind Dad
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Just send her to the newsagency to peruse the women's magazines. Most of the ads are filled with half nekkid girls (hey sex sells right?). Articles telling them to lose weight (or at least implying it) and generally beating the female public over the head with a saucepan (it's too heavy to throw apparently) about their self image.
Seriously though, I really think a lot of girls need a self image boost about feeling good about who they are. Being female seems to be too competitive for it's own good (and too bitchy in general).